{"id":484,"date":"2022-06-28T13:01:14","date_gmt":"2022-06-28T10:01:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/podcast.aalto.fi\/squirrelsnest\/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=484"},"modified":"2022-07-05T11:51:18","modified_gmt":"2022-07-05T08:51:18","slug":"04-notes-on-love","status":"publish","type":"podcast","link":"https:\/\/podcast.aalto.fi\/squirrelsnest\/podcast\/04-notes-on-love\/","title":{"rendered":"s02_e04   notes on love"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><em>What is love?&nbsp;<\/em>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-secondary-color has-text-color\">Three guests from the Aalto community with diverse backgrounds carefully narrate their own individual experiences and feelings about love in the form of fragmented dialogue and stream of consciousness. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-secondary-color has-text-color\">The podcast provides different values of love, on how to redefine our cultural norms concerning it, and how to become more open to giving and receiving love. These aspects are care, sharing, solidarity, and affection.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-luminous-vivid-orange-color has-text-color\"><strong>playlist<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>0:00  Fragments on what love is for different people, and bell hooks<br>02:19  Lion, Zoe, and Dina introduce themselves<br>04:09  The ethics of caring. What Lion learnt from his mother. Care in times of sickness<br>07:14  \u201cFriends were my second family\u201d \u201cSelf-love cannot flourish in isolation\u201d<br>09:10  Ira Byock&#8217;s story about the basis of a community, and civilization<br>10:54  Serving others, serving community in Jamaica<br>11:39  Zoe&#8217;s dream community: Polyamorous chosen family vs. community<br>12:49  Dina&#8217;s family in Ukraine during the war<br>14:15  \u201cAbuse and neglect negate love\u201d&#8230; \u201cEverything is upside down in Russia\u201d<br>16:08  Discovery of polyamory: Compersion, the opposite of jealousy<br>19:19  Love towards friends \/ Love towards partners \/ Love towards strangers<br>20:31  Cooking and teaching as forms of love<br>21:15  Rasta love is universal love. 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