{"id":234,"date":"2022-06-26T18:00:45","date_gmt":"2022-06-26T15:00:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/podcast.aalto.fi\/squirrelsnest\/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=234"},"modified":"2022-10-27T12:09:29","modified_gmt":"2022-10-27T09:09:29","slug":"01","status":"publish","type":"podcast","link":"https:\/\/podcast.aalto.fi\/squirrelsnest\/podcast\/01\/","title":{"rendered":"s02_e01  how to befriend a finn"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-secondary-color has-text-color\"><strong><em>Yst\u00e4v\u00e4<\/em> or <em>kaveri<\/em>?<\/strong>  It may not sound familiar, but those two words have the same meaning \u2014a friend. As two foreigners (Diana, from Slovakia, and Vilis, from Latvia) who met two months ago at Aalto Uni, we are talking about the basic idea behind the friendship focusing on the connections we made during our stay in Finland, living in Helsinki. We were interested  in questions like, what does it mean to be friends with someone? How many friends do we have? Is there a mechanism behind this strange chemistry? How long does it take to become real friends with someone here?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-secondary-color has-text-color\">The alternative title of our episode, <em>How to Befriend a Finn<\/em>, would in fact be: <em>Mission Impossible<\/em>. The cultural aspect played a crucial role in uncovering stereotypes and different approaches to friendship in Finland. We tried to explore the true nature of the Finnish cultural and social behavior for foreigners and Finns alike. We hope it will help us journey towards new and strong connections with people around us. As you might sometimes feel excluded, or you don&#8217;t understand what people are feeling or thinking, this podcast flashes the light on the relationships through the friendly and funny conversation we had during the wonderful, never-coming spring of 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-luminous-vivid-orange-color has-text-color\"><strong>playlist<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>00:00   Winters in Finland and first encounters<br>06:00   Silence and awkwardness<br>10:30   Outsiders understanding society in Finland<br>12:20   Strange culture, classmates and co-workers<br>16:30   Integration, some Finnish thoughts<br>19:00   Finnish stereotypes<br>23:35   Rules and society. Are they optional?<br>25:05   Fake politeness, fake smiles<br>26:30   Honesty matters: Finns need time<br>30:00   What is real friendship?<br>33:00   Getting touchy feely<br>43:10   Early marriage<br>46:00   Love for your friends and frankness<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-container-3 wp-block-columns\">\n<div class=\"wp-container-1 wp-block-column\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\">\n<p class=\"has-text-color\" style=\"color:#8397a9\"><sub><strong>Guests<\/strong>:<br>Gy\u00f6ngyi Fazekas, Mar\u00eda Villa, Samu Kuukka, Kamilla Gr\u00e4mer, Roberts Zaumanis<br><strong>Hosts:<\/strong><\/sub><br><sub>Diana Dzurillov\u00e1, Vilis Zuromskis<\/sub><br><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-tiny-font-size\" style=\"color:#88a2ba\"><em><strong>Thanks<\/strong> to our guests for their time and will to speak with us about their experience; to Ariel Bustamante as and inspiration force who created beautiful space and great artistic project; to Mar\u00eda and Camilo for support and nice course; to Aalto studios, Aalto and ourselves.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-container-2 wp-block-column\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"516\" height=\"689\" src=\"https:\/\/podcast.aalto.fi\/squirrelsnest\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/S02-Ep01.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-432\" srcset=\"https:\/\/podcast.aalto.fi\/squirrelsnest\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/S02-Ep01.png 516w, https:\/\/podcast.aalto.fi\/squirrelsnest\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/S02-Ep01-383x512.png 383w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 516px) 100vw, 516px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Yst\u00e4v\u00e4 or kaveri? 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